“hold off, Is it a romantic date?” Podcast Episode 105: finest Intercourse Actually ever | Autostraddle

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Our very own event subject recently is advisable Sex extremely the audience is speaing frankly about… a intercourse we have now ever had! We’re accompanied by Autostraddle creator, poet, and journalist Dani Janae as we go into some passionate stories with an in-depth conversation regarding what helps make great intercourse suitable. And now we fork out a lot period back at my intimate hang ups that I could or might not have in fact accomplished lots of work with come early july!

Come when it comes to lesbian movie-themed online game, remain for the coming.


PROGRAM RECORDS

+
The 200 Best Lesbian+ Videos record
that Christina pulled the overall game from.

+ For those who haven’t read Dani’s
Anatomy of a Mango
series you probably must.

+
Here is the essay
We wrote regarding individual We talk about in the occurrence. It is merely already been a couple of years but much changed!

+ The summer has gone by therefore nonetheless stan Olivia Rodrigo. Watch the
“intense” songs video clip
.



Dani:

The pet and also the dog had been for the space there had been cat and dog hair every-where. And thus, I was positively having an allergic response although we were having sex. Nevertheless orgasm was actually like chef’s kiss. It had been the most perfect, best experience physically.


Christina:

I question whether or not it’s some thing regarding hives that really included only a little

je ne sais quoi

to that particular orgasmic knowledge.


Theme track plays


Drew:

Welcome to

Hold off, Is It a Date?


Christina:


Wait, So Is This a Date?

is an Autostraddle podcast all about, you guessed it, internet dating.


Drew:

Yay! I Enjoy internet dating. I’m Drew Gregory. I’m an author for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and just general trans gay individual around the net and… I happened to be planning say world, but it’s truly similar to Los Angeles and ny.


Christina:

Everyone loves this globe trotting homosexual personality you’re dealing with here in 2021.


Drew:

I want that. Yeah, it’s for the future.


Christina:

Yeah. I will be the other host, Christina Tucker, in addition a writer for Autostraddle, deranged deafening gay on the internet. Just form of away here, writing, becoming homosexual, performing everything we can every moment to attempt to sort out this life that people’re living.


Drew:

You are truly carrying it out. You are really working during that life.


Christina:

Frankly, it is all i will carry out. That’s all I have, it’s the only choice.


Drew:

I truly respect the attempt.


Christina:

The attempt to stay?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Yeah. Actually, actually brave of me to even attempt it. You are not wrong, you aren’t incorrect. Are you willing to want to consider playing some online game today, Drew?


Drew:

Oh my personal God, i am thus excited. Cannot hold off to see everything have personally.


Christina:

I’m so glad you mentioned that because you completely have to say yes, because that’s part of this price that we’ve created here. So you could know about the fact on autostraddle.com, the web site, we a listing of 200 lesbian films.


Drew:

I realize from it. I may have written it.


Christina:

You might have. What I have inked is take an array of 10 of the movies. I have held them to the very best 50. I’ll provide land keywords as chosen by users on IMDb and you are attending have to you know what movie it really is.


Drew:

Okay. I simply wish the audience, wherever you may be, to understand that I am not saying planning pull-up record. In my opinion yes it’s true, am I let’s assume that’s correct in how I ought to be respecting this video game?


Christina:

I believe that’s very polite and I also genuinely believe that’s fair. I additionally sort of count on that the is going end up being something pops into the mind very simple for you, i did not go too left.


Drew:

We have a terrible mind, but yes, I’m going to make an effort to set people up for reduced expectations.


Christina:

Fair adequate.


Drew:

So if I do well, it is love type of strike all of them out, while I don’t excel, are going to like, “Well, she mentioned…” Anyways, continue. Let’s start this.


Christina:

Why don’t we begin. I will start off with pretty general people and I get a lot more particular as we get, because a lot of them are actually precisely what the film is within two words. So we’re going to you will need to start with a wider knowledge here.


Drew:

I adore it.


Christina:

Our very own basic movie: medicines will be the very first land term. New york, nyc is the 2nd. Hate criminal activity may be the 3rd.


Drew:

Okay.

Its Everywhere Myself.


Christina:

Yes, it is! See, we realized you will be able to perform this.


Drew:

Great.


Christina:

I positively knew you would certainly be able to do this.


Drew:

In addition, I just need to try to let people know that definitely the most underrated lesbian films, therefore really should find it. And Leisha Hailey in that motion picture has been my telephone history for a few years now. So just an enjoyable small reality truth be told there for many of you.


Christina:

We love that. Fine, movie number 2. “unidentified daddy,” body organ donor, cemetery, loss of child. Oh, she’s thinking.


Drew:

I believe like i will absolutely get this according to — delay, as yet not known dad, death of boy, body organ donor. Oh,

About My Personal Mother.


Christina:

Truth be told there it is, see.


Drew:

A different one of my favorites.


Christina:

It is very thrilling observe the things which folks decide are a plot key phrase that they need to pull from all of these movies. I am additionally maybe not checking out the types that are only lesbian because that seems kind of like a gimme.


Drew:

That is the way I come up with a lot of the record as if you look up lesbian motion pictures, that which you found had been the outdated Autostraddle list or some databases that are not extremely detailed, so I would really search through databases regarding the keyword phrases of lesbian, lesbian kissing, these exact things like girls kissing, these specific things, in order to find movies where they may be perhaps not regarded as a lesbian motion picture since they are a little more fascinating, or simply just slightly much less direct, that is certainly the way I found certain motion pictures which can be now regarding the listing, therefore back to where it started.


Christina:

Pay attention, IMDb keywords coming in helpful for all of us on a regular basis. This one, people moved wild on this one. So simply planning to read some random terms for you. Hey, whistling, girl, black sporting events bra, lake, stomping out a cigarette, working accident.


Drew:

On-the-job collision? Oh, I thought I’d it following, well—


Christina:

Cool, in parentheses, the temperature.


Drew:

Because initially I found myself gonna say

Foxfire,

however the at work accident changed myself upwards. On the job crash.


Christina:

Do you need more?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Pickup crashes through a fence.


Drew:

Is-it

Miseducation of Cameron Post?


Christina:

It isn’t.


Drew:

Because face to face collision would-be a really terrible method of describing any particular one of this homosexual since you’re attempting to become maybe not gayness, attempts to mutilate themselves or does mutilate themselves. That’d be pretty extreme, but I didn’t know because of the IMDb thinkers. Okay, hold off, this is tricking myself up.


Christina:

Would you like some more from myself?


Drew:

Vehicle through a fence. I’m sure it is something that I am just not… Yeah, keep working.


Christina:

Reference to a college mortgage. These are so walnuts.


Drew:

Hold off, have you ever viewed this motion picture?


Christina:

I have seen this motion picture.


Drew:

Could it be crazy that I’m not getting hired?


Christina:

It is slightly wild. I am able to offer you a-year, if you’d like a year.


Drew:

Any time you give me a year, I’ll certainly have it.


Christina:

Okay. 2016 is the season.


Drew:

2016. Okay, let me know the goals.


Christina:

It will be the film,

Certain Women,

2016.


Drew:

Oh! Yeah.


Christina:

I really thought pickup accidents through a fence would allow you to get, but I additionally merely love they merely pulling-out nouns and just becoming like, “male.” Would be that how you feel?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Okay.


Drew:

Which is a great movie. I have to see that again.


Christina:

It’s. Its an excellent motion picture.


Drew:

Yeah, its a really great film.


Christina:

Fine, all of our next film. Kissing whilst having gender.


Drew:

Best kind of both, maybe, in ways.


Christina:

Seduction, dude farm.


Drew:

Will it be

Desert Hearts?


Christina:

Yeah. Therefore I was like, “Okay, you’ve got receive that then one.” One other one I found myself planning to give you was — “nipples” was actually the really conspicuously featured. And I ended up being like, “Sure, definitely section of that movie.”


Drew:

Jesus,

Desert Hearts.

You understand how there is all those frustrating men and women on the market wanting to be Shane. Sorry, I mean, if you are wanting to be Shane, I recognize you. But myself, my frustrating thing is that I’m trying to be Cay. Cay in this motion picture is like definitely which i do believe of just like the kind of lesbian that I would like to end up being.


Christina:

Yeah, that is correct, can verify. All right, are we prepared for the after that any?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Season—


Drew:

Wait, no, I have one more thing to state about

Desert Hearts.


Christina:

Certain.


Drew:

After the finally time we re-watched it throughout the summer, it kind of sent me into hook spiral, and that I texted this older semi-closeted one who I experienced sort of begun tentatively attempting to go out or time whatever, and who’d vanished for monthly, and I had given up on because I don’t ask people to date me personally. But i simply ended up being like, “Okay.” We saw

Desert Hearts

and I also was actually want, “i suppose maybe occasionally people have their unique internalized whatever.” And I also texted the girl and I also mentioned, “Whenever we never meet, I think you’re going to regret it.” And we performed satisfy, making sure that’s exactly what

Desert Hearts

can perform to you.


Christina:

Wow, that is a really strong endorsement.


Drew:

We most likely must not have satisfied. We most likely needs to have just let it end up being. But anyways, progressing, next flick.


Christina:

Our very own next film, metaphysics, scene during beginning credits — exactly what this means, it really is up to you — high school football, Chicago, Illinois.


Drew:

Oh,

Princess Cyd.


Christina:

There you decide to go.


Drew:

Which is an excellent film. I like that We keep being surprised through this number that I had a really strong submit positioning. It is not my personal positioning, but i did so have a large proclaim when you look at the standing and I also love it.


Christina:

Yeah. I just wish to be clear to you personally and all of our listeners — again, We chose through the leading 50, therefore normally great types. Associated with great people, these are typically good people. I Am Aware Drewwill constantly state this can be a great motion picture after each and every one, but—


Drew:

They truly are really good films, all of you should watch them.


Christina:

All right. Brief dress with pumps.


Drew:

Love it.


Christina:

Cock blocked, mini skirt with shoes.


Drew:

After all, can it be

Blockers?


Christina:

It’s not. That might be also simple, I think, for

Blockers.


Drew:

I don’t keep in mind any miniskirts, but—


Christina:

Female back nudity.


Drew:

Okay. Wait the second. Okay, what a moment. Okay, cock blocked, mini skirt, female back nudity.


Christina:

m4m hookups-hmm (affirmative). Split dancing.


Drew:

Will it be

Bound?


Christina:

It isn’t really.


Drew:

No, I would love some slack moving world.


Christina:

I like a rest dancing scene in

Certain.


Drew:

A rest dancing world.


Christina:

I’m going to supply: English woman abroad.


Drew:

English girl abroad? This is exactly another one in which I believe we certainly should get it.


Christina:

I will need to offer you a fairly apparent any at some point, in order forwill help.


Drew:

Okay, give myself an evident one.


Christina:

Undercover agent.


Drew:

Is-it

D.E.B.S?


Christina:

It’s not

D.E.B.S.

It really is next to

D.E.B.S.,

style of movie sensible. Here is a differnt one, intrigue.


Drew:

Okay, wait, there’s not many genre movies.


Christina:

You can findn’t, that is true.


Drew:

Undercover broker. Really, possibly they truly are making use of the phase, can it be

The Handmaiden?


Christina:

It is really not.


Drew:

Okay, i did not think so. Undercover representative.


Christina:

Do you want your 12 months?


Drew:

I thought that… Positive.


Christina:

The 12 months is 2017.


Drew:

Undercover agent.


Christina:

I am therefore sorry. You will feel very foolish whenever I state the concept of your one.


Drew:

Oh no.


Christina:

I’m truly sorry about that, but that is type exactly the way the cookie crumbles.


Drew:

Oh, it’s

Carol.


Christina:

No, it’s not

Carol.


Drew:

No, it claims 2015.


Christina:

Yes, I Am Aware that. It isn’t

Carol.


Drew:

But there is an undercover — the guy, this is where I happened to be thinking. Okay, what-is-it? How come it make me feel stupid?


Christina:

It’s

Atomic Blonde,

you dummy.


Drew:

Oh, that is in the top 50?


Christina:

It really is. I’m sure.


Drew:

Oh, okay.


Christina:

Fine. We have four a lot more, you ready?


Drew:

I really don’t believe that silly for the reason that it one I… i am talking about, i believe

Atomic Blonde

is fun, but Really don’t believe it’s fantastic. That will not be in my own individual very top 50. I really do desire the planet to understand that I’m sure that

Carol

arrived on the scene in 2015. My brain harm. I simply want globally to find out that. Anyways, continue.


Christina:

Globally today understands that, the record happens to be reflected. All righty: restaurant, feeling of scent, novelist, mention of a hamburger, mention of Larry King, considering memoir, alcoholic, theft, woman wears glasses, residing by yourself, damaging research.


Drew:

The mention of Larry King is actually—


Christina:

Its a really unusual one.


Drew:

Mention of Larry King, damaging research.


Christina:

Cat.


Drew:

Oh, could it possibly be

Can You Actually Forgive Me?


Christina:

Its.


Drew:

I needed to receive me. I was truly in a slump there.


Christina:

You nailed it. I think you have got here, I think you positively got here. Fine, three even more, our very own leading three. I do believe these people shall be simple for you because I know you.


Drew:

Great, ok, well…


Christina:

I understand, but I’m claiming, are you ready?


Drew:

Okay, yeah.


Christina:

Mental health, medicine overdose.


Drew:

Could it be

Foxfire?


Christina:

No. Photographer.


Drew:

Oh,

Greater.


Christina:

There we go. Tattoo, girl gang.


Drew:

Is this

Foxfire?


Christina:

Yeah.


Drew:

Oh, i understand

Foxfire.


Christina:

I found myself like, “Oh, she’s going to only hold guessing

Foxfire

until I just give the woman

Foxfire.”


Drew:

The trick usually I love

Foxfire

and I keep wanting to think about

Foxfire.


Christina:

I am talking about, whomst in our midst?


Drew:

Angelina Jolie, gosh.


Christina:

Okay. This Option, one of them is actually—


Drew:

This is basically the final one?


Christina:

This is the finally one. This really is the final any. Church, denial, family relationships.


Drew:

Would it be

Miseducation of Cameron Article?


Christina:

It isn’t really.


Drew:

Could it possibly be

But I’m a Cheerleader?


Christina:

It really is, yes.


Drew:

Yes. Comedic

Miseducation of Cameron Post.


Christina:

Jokes on laughs. So that had been the overall game I’m calling, how good Does Drew understand Lesbian videos???


Drew:

Everyone loves exactly how great we have been picking out labels for the video games.


Christina:

Yeah, that it is mortifying that I actually published that for the concept of a Google Doc, what was we considering? It doesn’t actually look good within my Bing Docs.


Drew:

I’d a good time and I also’m truly pleased that I got to inform most of the listeners about all of the movies they should view. Therefore we’ll put the list during the tv show records.


Christina:

Positively.


Drew:

I would point out that the list happens to be at a location where I think you might get some thing away from watching all 200 flicks. The most important version of record, there is some stuff on there that I was not very satisfied with. There is still items that i do believe that I do not really but I think that as a whole, there is a particular quality-control after this latest revision that i’m very pleased with and that I believe they truly are all worth witnessing.


Christina: